First dinner date - Who picks up the bill?
Top answer
🤝 Split the bill evenly
Chosen by 33.7% of respondents — 118 votes
Full results
Men vs women
🤝 Split the bill evenly
🍽️ Whoever invited pays
💬 Other, please comment!
💸 Each pays for what they ordered
🎩 The person who suggested the restaurant pays
How different age groups voted
| Answer | 18-24 | 25-34 | 35-44 | 45-54 | 55-64 | 65+ |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 🤝 Split the bill evenly | 10 | 11 | 17 | 20 | 26 | 34 |
| 🍽️ Whoever invited pays | 4 | 8 | 12 | 20 | 27 | 25 |
| 💬 Other, please comment! | 1 | 5 | 7 | 14 | 13 | 16 |
| 💸 Each pays for what they ordered | 2 | 4 | 5 | 13 | 14 | 9 |
| 🎩 The person who suggested the restaurant pays | 1 | 8 | 5 | 3 | 8 | 7 |
What the numbers say
Methodology: This poll was answered by verified members of Over60s DatingOnline.com between 4 February 2026 and today. All votes are cast by real, registered members. Results are shown as percentages of total responses and are not adjusted or weighted. The gender breakdown reflects members who selected Male or Female; Couple and Other categories may also have voted but are not shown separately in this chart. Age bands reflect self-reported data at time of registration.
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With 350 votes cast, "🤝 Split the bill evenly" came out on top — chosen by 33.7% of respondents. "🍽️ Whoever invited pays" followed at 27.7%, showing the community is anything but one-note on this topic.
The gender split is telling: 43.8% of women chose this answer, compared with 27.9% of men — a gap worth noting. Dating is personal, but the numbers suggest women and men are approaching this question from slightly different angles.