Do you get nervous before a first date?

847 members voted ยท Published

Top answer

๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes, depends on the vibe

Chosen by 42.3% of respondents โ€” 358 votes

Full results

๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes, depends on the vibe Top answer
42.3% (358)
๐Ÿ˜… Always, Iโ€™m a bundle of nerves
30% (254)
๐Ÿ˜Œ Rarely, Iโ€™m pretty chill about it
14.2% (120)
๐Ÿ˜Ž Never, I treat it like any other meet
9.6% (81)
๐Ÿ’ฌ Other (Leave a comment below!)
4% (34)

Men vs women

๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes, depends on the vibe
Men
41.2%
Women
44.3%
๐Ÿ˜… Always, Iโ€™m a bundle of nerves
Men
28%
Women
32.9%
๐Ÿ˜Œ Rarely, Iโ€™m pretty chill about it
Men
16.1%
Women
11.1%
๐Ÿ˜Ž Never, I treat it like any other meet
Men
11.3%
Women
6.6%
๐Ÿ’ฌ Other (Leave a comment below!)
Men
3.4%
Women
5.1%

How different age groups voted

Answer18-2425-3435-4445-5455-6465+
๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes, depends on the vibe194554707595
๐Ÿ˜… Always, Iโ€™m a bundle of nerves202948485453
๐Ÿ˜Œ Rarely, Iโ€™m pretty chill about it41417192541
๐Ÿ˜Ž Never, I treat it like any other meet6107101929
๐Ÿ’ฌ Other (Leave a comment below!)3510637

What the numbers say

With 847 votes cast, "๐Ÿ™‚ Sometimes, depends on the vibe" came out on top โ€” chosen by 42.3% of respondents. "๐Ÿ˜… Always, Iโ€™m a bundle of nerves" followed at 30%, showing the community is anything but one-note on this topic.

Men and women were broadly aligned on this one โ€” both groups leaned toward the same answer at similar rates, suggesting this is less a gender divide and more a shared view across the community.

Methodology: This poll was answered by verified members of Over60s DatingOnline.com between 6 May 2026 and today. All votes are cast by real, registered members. Results are shown as percentages of total responses and are not adjusted or weighted. The gender breakdown reflects members who selected Male or Female; Couple and Other categories may also have voted but are not shown separately in this chart. Age bands reflect self-reported data at time of registration.

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