First Date Dilemma: Do you reveal your bedtime?
Top answer
Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into
Chosen by 47.5% of respondents — 289 votes
Full results
Men vs women
Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into
Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls
Only if the convo gets that deep
No — mystery first, sleep schedule later
I keep my nights… classified
How different age groups voted
| Answer | 18-24 | 25-34 | 35-44 | 45-54 | 55-64 | 65+ |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into | 39 | 67 | 48 | 38 | 42 | 51 |
| Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls | 7 | 10 | 27 | 15 | 17 | 27 |
| Only if the convo gets that deep | 7 | 14 | 22 | 15 | 19 | 16 |
| No — mystery first, sleep schedule later | 4 | 7 | 14 | 11 | 16 | 22 |
| I keep my nights… classified | 5 | 7 | 6 | 9 | 6 | 17 |
What the numbers say
Methodology: This poll was answered by verified members of Over60s DatingOnline.com between 11 May 2026 and today. All votes are cast by real, registered members. Results are shown as percentages of total responses and are not adjusted or weighted. The gender breakdown reflects members who selected Male or Female; Couple and Other categories may also have voted but are not shown separately in this chart. Age bands reflect self-reported data at time of registration.
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With 609 votes cast, "Yes — transparency is sexy. Know what you’re getting into" came out on top — chosen by 47.5% of respondents. "Wait… is this something people actually share? Explain pls" followed at 16.9%, showing the community is anything but one-note on this topic.
The gender split is telling: 52.1% of men chose this answer, compared with 38.7% of women — a gap worth noting. Dating is personal, but the numbers suggest men and women are approaching this question from slightly different angles.