Can you ever be friends with an ex?

2,548 members voted · Published

Top answer

It’s tricky, but it’s possible

Chosen by 36.1% of respondents — 920 votes

Full results

It’s tricky, but it’s possible Top answer
36.1% (920)
Sure, if you want
21.5% (547)
No way – it just leads to trouble
19.1% (486)
I’m friends with nearly all my exes!
12.4% (316)
Ughhh… Why would I wanna do that?
10.9% (279)

Men vs women

It’s tricky, but it’s possible
Men
37.7%
Women
32.6%
Sure, if you want
Men
21.8%
Women
20.7%
No way – it just leads to trouble
Men
18.5%
Women
20.5%
I’m friends with nearly all my exes!
Men
12.6%
Women
12.1%
Ughhh… Why would I wanna do that?
Men
9.5%
Women
14.1%

How different age groups voted

Answer18-2425-3435-4445-5455-6465+
It’s tricky, but it’s possible51108143192218203
Sure, if you want214659109131177
No way – it just leads to trouble25668588104118
I’m friends with nearly all my exes!102336757893
Ughhh… Why would I wanna do that?102545495991

What the numbers say

With 2,548 votes cast, "It’s tricky, but it’s possible" came out on top — chosen by 36.1% of respondents. "Sure, if you want" followed at 21.5%, showing the community is anything but one-note on this topic.

Men and women were broadly aligned on this one — both groups leaned toward the same answer at similar rates, suggesting this is less a gender divide and more a shared view across the community.

Methodology: This poll was answered by verified members of Over60s DatingOnline.com between 25 June 2024 and today. All votes are cast by real, registered members. Results are shown as percentages of total responses and are not adjusted or weighted. The gender breakdown reflects members who selected Male or Female; Couple and Other categories may also have voted but are not shown separately in this chart. Age bands reflect self-reported data at time of registration.

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